As I was laying in bed this morning I kept hearing the word "Identity."
Who are we? Why are we here? Can we have meaningful relationships? Can I move on pass the divorce? Am I lovable?
Am I worth the time? Am I
employable. Identity is by far the most
talked about topic right now as people struggle to find out who they are and
overcome their personal struggles with their sexual orientation, unemployment
and relationships. The roles of men and
women have changed over the years. This
has brought so much confusion to our society.
Especially in homes where single moms have to play the roles of mom and
dad just raise up their children. The
breakdown of gender and parental roles have caused such fragmentation in our
society that it has left us wandering around trying to find out who we
are. Have you ever heard someone say
"I just need to find myself."
Well, most of us cringe when we hear that because it means that the
person who just said that is going on a personal journey to find themselves and
you are not invited. The next thing you
know they pack up their bags and they are gone.
Is it really that they can't find themselves or it is that they don't
like their life and think they can have a better life without you? What is sad about the statement I just made,
is that they think their identity will change if they change scenery. The truth is we define
our world by and how we see ourselves in relation to it.
So what is identity? I will define identity as the characteristics
that define who we are, evidenced by what we do. We are often defined by what we believe about
ourselves and sometimes what others have said about us. For instance, if your parents told you that
you were good for nothing and nobody will love you; then most of time people
live up to those expectations. Let's say
you were bullied in school and called names.
The most likely outcome will be that we take on the identity of our
accusers. A worse scenario would be to
be molested, raped or abused and take on the identity of shame. There are many divorced people out there who
take on the identity of rejection.
Children whose parents leave and abandon them take on an identity of
rejected orphans. Everyday all over the
world people allow events to define them instead of allowing God to tell them
of their amazing value.
So who are we really? Are we here just get by and live just another
day? Are we here to be abused by
others? Are we here to become successful,
happy and raise a family? What was our
original design? Some of us don't seem
to know who we are! If you don't know I
will tell you... YOU WERE MADE TO BE LOVED!
You were meant to have an amazing life and have a relationship with your
creator. If you are reading this and you
don't believe in God then I have only one thing to say...GOD BELIEVES IN YOU! God decided to risk it all and give up his
life to demonstrate your value and His love for you. He didn't know if you would accept His proposal
but He was willing to take the chance because YOU ARE WORTH IT! Why am I capitalizing my words? I want to give you the opportunity to start
thinking about yourself in the way God thinks about you. Before your mind starts to argue with you
about your value and identity; I want you to know that you can become someone
completely different. Your heritage,
past, crime record, mistakes, upbringing, divorce, abuse and etc. does not have
to determine your future or define who you are.
God has already defined who you are and declared your value. You are God's treasure! All of God's Kingdom is destined to dwell in you along with God's
son; Jesus Christ. When He looks at us He sees Jesus. For whom He foreknew, He also
predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son,
that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. (Romans 8:29)
Many people are held to horrible images of themselves
because they have believed a lie! The
devil is a liar! He can only enter our
lives though deception and lies. Once
you embrace the truth he can't keep you a prisoner of your past anymore. He can't torment you with fear. He can't cause you to be depressed, sad or suicidal. He can't cause pain in your heart and he
can't keep you defeated! Why? Because you have a new identity and it is
Christ's! Christ is victorious and
already defeated him so don't give him a voice in your head! Give no place or thought to the devil. (Ephesians 4:27) Realize that you win! You are a new creation with God's DNA (destiny - now - activated) You are now being
conformed to the express image of the Son.
Circumstances don't define you; you define your circumstances. You have nothing or no one to fear. The Lord
is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The Lord is
the strength of my life; Of whom
shall I be afraid? Psalm 27:1
Some quick points: To find your Christ identity you must realize:
1.
Baptism was meant to leave our old identity in the grave and take up a
new one by following Christ. God came in
the flesh so he can be an earthly man with struggles and adversity but still
walk in victory! Jesus came out of the
wilderness in power not defeated.
In those days there appeared John the Baptist,
preaching in the Wilderness (Desert) of Judea2 And saying,
Repent (think differently; change your mind, regretting your sins and changing
your conduct), for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. John 1:1-2 Amplified
14 Then Jesus returned in the power of the
Spirit to Galilee, and news of Him went out through all the surrounding region.
15 And He taught in their synagogues, being glorified by
all. Luke 4:14
2. We have already been
given a new spirit and God's nature when we got born again. I hear a lot of people say "Well, I was
born that way." When are born of
God's spirit, we take on His nature and leave behind our parent's nature. We have a new Father and we take after Him
not our culture or upbringing.
Therefore if any person is [ingrafted] in Christ (the Messiah)
he is a new creation (a new
creature altogether); the old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has
passed away. Behold, the fresh and new has come!
3. We
can't allow events, people or external judgments define who we are but we need
to get a new mind set by receiving God's truths and implementing them, causing
us to know what pleases the father's heart!
Don't let people tell you who you are. We were meant to define the world around us
because of who we already are!
Do not be conformed to this world (this age), [fashioned after
and adapted to its external, superficial customs], but be transformed (changed)
by the [entire] renewal of your mind [by its new ideals and its
new attitude], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what is the good and
acceptable and perfect will of God, even the thing which is good and
acceptable and perfect [in His sight for you]. Roman 12:2 Amplified
4. We
need to embrace our future and let go of our past! You can't be the new you and still be holding
onto past hurts and events. We can't
allow past hurts trump the cross.
I do not consider, brethren, that I have captured and
made it my own [yet]; but one thing I do [it is my one aspiration]: forgetting what lies behind and
straining forward to what lies ahead,
Philippians 3:13
5. We have
to embrace a mindset of humility and be stripped of our rights to possess the
fullness of Christ's identity.
5 Let this same attitude and
purpose and [humble] mind be in you which was in Christ Jesus: [Let Him
be your example in humility: 6 Who, although being essentially
one with God and in the form of God [possessing the fullness of the
attributes which make God God], did not think this equality with God was a
thing to be eagerly grasped or retained, 7 But stripped
Himself [of all privileges and rightful dignity], so as to assume the guise of
a servant (slave), in that He became like men and was born a human
being. Philippians 2:5-7
6. Our
identity is love. It's not we do, it is
who we are!
By this shall all [men] know that you are My disciples, if you love one another [if you keep on
showing love among yourselves].
John 13:35
7. Self must
be crucified that Christ's identity can live!
Then Jesus said to His disciples, If anyone desires
to be My disciple, let him deny
himself [disregard, lose sight of, and forget himself and his own interests]
and take up his cross and follow
Me [cleave steadfastly to Me, conform wholly to My example in living and, if
need be, in dying, also]. Matthew 16:24
I have been crucified
with Christ [in Him I have shared His crucifixion]; it is no longer I
who live, but Christ (the
Messiah) lives in me; and the life I now live in the body I live by faith in
(by adherence to and reliance on and complete trust in) the Son of God, Who
loved me and gave Himself up for me.
Galatians 2:20
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